When a women you are with playing with or pushing her fingers
through her hair, she is wanting your attention. The way that she
touches her hair can also tell you many things. If she makes slow
movements, she is most likely attracted to you and doing this as a
subtle seduction towards you. If she is quickly fidgeting with her hair,
it may be a sign that she is nervous or impatient. Not always a bad
thing, but you may need to implement another strategy at this point to
calm her.
Watch her hands. If she dances slowly around the rim of a glass with
her fingers, she is most likely in a sensuous mood. Caressing
movements are a sign that a women is feeling calm and relaxed.
Good stuff, keep doing what your doing.
If the women you are with takes the initiative to touch you, she is
interested for sure. Unless your long time buddies, women don't
naturally risk touching you pleasantly unless they are interested. They
can touch, bump, or rub their arms or legs up to you. A very good
sign of better things to come.
If, when you are talking at a table or on a couch or wherever, if she
leans in towards you, this is a sign she is interested. If she does this,
lean in slightly towards her as well. Let her know that you have
acknowledged her. Every so often lean back in a comfortable way to
show you are secure with yourself.
Watch her feet and legs. Is she crossing her legs frequently and
swinging the free leg back and forth? Are her feet pointing towards
you? This is usually suggests a very sexually charged moment.
Signs things aren't going so well…Unfortunately there will be times where the chemistry isn't right, or the
women isn't interested in you for some reason. Here are some of the
body language signals to look out for:
She sits back with her arms crossed. Usually this means she is
guarding herself and not interested.
She averts her eyes constantly around the room and occasionally
makes eye contact with you.
Her body is angled away from you instead of straight towards you.
She acts nervous, and does things like tap the table or glass with her
fingers.
If you notice any of these traits in her, pull back a bit. Maybe even say
you have to go. Take the first initiative even if you really want her, and
do so confidently. Tell her you enjoyed her company and say
goodbye. If she is still interested in you, she will usually not want you
to go. And the fact that you made the move first showed her that you
are confident in yourself and don't need her.
Goodluck....