If you want a woman to like you, paying attention to DETAILS
no matter how small they may be is A MUST and NOT to be
taken lightly.
Subtle GESTURES and any off hand actions are more charming
and convincing than lofty words uttered or grand gestures
performed...
The latter will only arouse suspicion. (A woman told me this).
It's true, being "too smooth" with women may not neccesarily
be all good. Ask any woman and they'll tell u off the
bat that 'players' are a big NO NO.
They can smell a "player" miles away and contrary to popular
belief, women HATE "players", "playboys" or whatever it's
called these days.
"They're full of themselves"
"They're not trustworthy"
"They'll break your heart and run elsewhere when they
see the next sweet thing"
"All talk no action"
Common words that describe the average "player".
Bear in mind though, "players" and "bad boys" are two
TOTALLY DIFFERENT things. Worlds apart, really.
Players REPULSE women away.
Bad Boys ENTICE women to chase them.
Which would YOU rather be?
Instead, concentrate on with little details when you are with
a girl you like, such as the way you dress, your fragrance,
your gestures, as well as HERS; what she likes, what she
says, what she wants, etc...
The words and actions to spell out, they're definitely there
and you have to be savvy and fast enough to catch them.
You have to learn to suggest proper feelings (in this case
attraction) and moods through small details. The small
details could be little rituals of charming actions, objects,
a thoughtful little gift, - basically ANYTHING.
The main idea here is to focus on her senses - on DELIGHTING
her senses. Your aim here is to win her over using the basic
human senses of touch, sight, taste and hearing.
For example you can set up thoughtful gifts for her- if she
loves sewing, get her a nice little sewing kit or if she
loves baking, get her an oven or something that she could
use in the kitchen.
Attune your sense to hers by watching her carefully.
ADAPT to her moods.
That said, it means when she is having a bad day make sure
you do not aggravate the situation. You can always try to
distract her by injecting some fun into her day.
Adapting to her moods also mean, when you sense she is
defensive make sure you retreat. If she is happy, take
advantage of the situation and move forward.
Paying attention to detail also include not just attuning
to their moods but to their likes and dislikes as well.
For instance, you know how much she digs certain types of
clothing on men- say Polo shirts for instance because she
thinks they look neat and casual on a man, make sure you
dress up in a Polo tee shirt on your next outing with
her.
She'll notice.. for sure.
The clothes you wear, the scent, entertainment, food,
gifts you choose should all be aimed accurately according
to her tastes.
Attend to your friend's every move and want and desire
and reveal your attentiveness in the details and objects
you surround her with, filling her senses with the mood
you need to inspire.
She will love the effect of your actions on her sense
(remember that a woman's senses are more refined than
a man's) and in no time she'll be so taken in with your
little pleasant rituals and hopefully she'll realize
what a charming and irresistible person you are and
will be eating out of your hand soon enough.
Here you are attracting her with your actions not so
much your words.
Words come easily and women these days get weary,
skeptical of words at times, but a gesture, a thoughtful
gift or gesture , the little details will seem MUCH MORE
real and substantial.
All the little details will speak for itself without
you having to tell her how you really feel.
Let her guess it in your looks and gestures - that is
the more convincing language.
It's simply CRUCIAL for you to DEVELOP and CULTIVATE
specific qualities in yourself if you want to att.ract
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