The way you approach a woman is the MOST important step towards
attracting her. If you can demonstrate the right kind of
qualities when you initiate a conversation, then it's easy to
make her interested.
As humans, we make instant judgments about people within the
first couple seconds of meeting them.
This means if you want to attract a woman, you have to ensure
that you're displaying the right kind of body language on your
approach.
Now most guys make the mistake of giving off POOR body language
when initiating conversations with girls. Whether they act
too intimidating or behave in a wussy manner, most men are
sending the WRONG body language signals to women.
So if you're having trouble with attracting women when you first
meet them, then you should take a look at your body
language.
Here is a quick FOUR step system for displaying attractive body
language to women:
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1) Be friendly
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When you approach a woman, lock eyes on her and smile. Your
goal is to give off a warm and friendly personality with your
approach. In other words, you want to approach her like a long
lost friend.
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2) Display energy and enthusiasm
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Most guys start a conversation with sullen or scared looks on
their faces. Trust me...this is one of the worst things you
can do.
You want to be thought of as a fun, interesting guy. So it's
important show lot's of energy when approaching women.
Remember...enthusiasm is contagious. If you act like you're
having a great time, this energy will naturally rub off on
her.
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3) Don't face her head on
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When you initiate a conversation, you want to put her at ease.
The best way to do this is to avoid directly facing a woman.
One of the principles of body language is we tend to be
uncomfortable by people who directly face us. So of positioning
yourself square in front of her, you should approach her to the
side.
If you can end up side-by-side or at an angle, you'll reduce
a lot of the nervousness and tension.
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4) Be relaxed
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Once you've approached the woman you should strike a relaxed
pose.
In order to appear confident, you have to give off the appearance
that you're not anxious or worried about the outcome of your
conversation. By displaying a relaxed posture (like leaning
back), you're showing her that she's in the presence of a confident
male.
If you use this four part body language system on your approach,
you'll increase your chances of developing a successful
conversation.
Then it'll be easy to quickly develop rapport and make things
more intimate.
Now go out there and make it happen.