As you can see for men we have 4 categories of men when it comes to relationship,they are:
A very interested man
A moderately interested man
A man who is out for a fling
A man who has no romantic interest in you at all.
A very interested man
Most guys are straightforward. If he is very interested in you, he will try his best to contact you frequently. He will create opportunities to keep in contact with you, such as waiting for you on internet messenger and thinking of excuses to give you a call. He will also call you frequently and try to ask you out for a date.
. During the date, he will make sure that everything goes on smoothly. He may book the tables in advance, plan the post dinner activities and arrive at the date in his best attire. He will offer to pay for the meal, so that he gets another opportunity to ask you out again
. During the "follow-up" period, he will do everything for you willingly to get into your good shoes. He will shower you with gifts (well, not all guys do that, but most of them do), drive to pick you up at your work place on a rainy day, travel deliberately to a particular place to get the food that you like or buy the bag that you want. He will be very nice to you, giving you frequent compliments and encouragement.
A moderately interested man
A moderately interested man is one who is interested in you, but is still considering whether you are the right person for him. Guys in this category will contact you once in a while, for example, give you a phone call once every week or only send forwarded SMSes to you.
. He will not deliberately wait for you on internet messenger, but will talk to you whenever he sees you online. He will ask you out for dinner once in a while, with the frequency not exceeding thrice per month. He may give you a treat, but not at posh restaurants, sometimes even suggesting that both of you go Dutch.
He will do things for you as what he will do for other friends, not exceeding that threshold. For example, he is less likely to buy you gifts, for fear that you may get the wrong idea.
A man who is out for a fling
If he is just out for a fling, the tell tale signs are that he initiates body contact, such as touching of hands and shoulders, at a very early stage. He whispers softly into your ear when he talks to you, even though he is not emotionally close to you. He tries to tease you until you blush. But most importantly, you will know for sure that it is a fling if he does that to all the pretty girls he knows or if he is married or attached. The place and circumstances where you met him may yield another hint.
. A man whom you met at a disco or pub, behaves flirtatiously and invites you to his home for a ‘drink’ is more likely to have thoughts of a one-night stand in mind than say, a guy you met at your favourite section of the local bookstore, or at a financial planning seminar which both of you attended.
. A man who has no romantic interest in you at all!
This is an uncommon occurrence. Even if he has no romantic interest in you at all, the nice guys will still treat you normally as a friend while the bad guys will try their best to flirt with you. However, if you realize that he has not been answering your calls or replying your SMSes, never asked you out for a date even though you have known each other for many years and tries to matchmake you with his friend, then these are tell tale signs that he is simply not interested.
So you girls can go out there and with these knowledge know what your guy has in mind before he even acts or speak.
Goodluck……