10 Secrets About Guys That Girls Must KnowCertainly this job of knowing whether the guy who touches the heart is worth living with for a lifetime is becoming difficult. To make the job easier, here are offered 15 secrets about guys that a girl must know. Read them, apply them to your guy-in-love and decide.1.For guys, chemistry is not necessarily connected to beauty:
2. Guys cry:
When something goes amiss in a relationship, guys are equally affected as girls. But it is better to let him off if he really proves unworthy in a relationship. That is the way guys learn to behave. It is experience and rejection that make them mature and well-behaved. So let him cry to learn better. But if a guy cries in front of the girl in an otherwise normal relationship, it is better to listen to him. He may be having a genuine reason to cry that the girl must certainly listen to. Because, as a general rule, guys don't cry in front of his lady love, unless otherwise there is a strong reason.
3. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention:
So don't get carried away. They like watching girls because it is their biggest pastime. They admire girls even if they're not that much pretty. And the next step in line is to get the girl respond to them. It is just the feel-good factor to ensure that they are attractive enough for the girls. So don't slip away from your ground at the mere gimmicks shown only to attract you.
4. If a guy tells you he loves YOU once in a lifetime, he really does:
Because no guy says so easily "I love you" to a girl. But when he says he means it. He may be flirting around with so many, but would have special feelings for a special girl who he cannot forget. And if you happen to be that special friend, who doesn't want to respond to him, then don't expect him to give up. His entire life goal from then on will be to make you accept him. He will give up only when he comes to know that some other guy has succeeded in his application to you.
5. He that stammers in front of you is the one Cupid-struck:
Guys put up a lacklustre performance in the first few encounters with the girl-in-love. Phone talks do a lot of good to them than face-to-face encounters. They would rather mouth some boring world news than speak up what they intended to say, mainly to get over the stammer. So, go easy on them if they stammer and lose the way
6. Guys are good at listening but poor at understanding:
They put up a good face as though they are good listeners. But they alone can tell what they had been listening - your words or voice or something else!? If you want to convey something, say clearly and ask for feedback. That is one way to make sure that he is indeed listening to you. Don't strain your mind to find novel ways of expressing your thoughts. Sign language also would do no good, as guys are said to understand very few signs which girls need not bother to know until they marry! So, if you have anything to say, you have to say in clear terms. Even if it is "I love you," you have to say so. Because until and unless you say so, he would not understand. The guy would only be steeped in doubts even if his heart tells him that you love him.
7. Guys have obsession about their hairstyle:
So, make an adverse remark about his hairstyle only if you want to turn him off! Guys may even go without a proper dress-sense, but never without a "hair-sense." They are the Samsons whose secret of energy and charm are locked up with their hair locks or the absence of them! They may even show up in muddy shoes that were probably not in use for years. But hair is something special. For a good many of them, their sex appeal lies in their hairstyle.
8. Rejection is the biggest nightmare for guys:
They don't accept defeat so easily, particularly if they have had a relationship with a girl for quite some time. They will keep trying to get your approval, despite the "no" you have said. If they hear you say "no," they would actually hear it "not now." So they will keep trying. See what happens with Beckham. He may have dated different girls at different times, but would be quick enough to seek pardon from his wife. If Victoria turns "spicy" enough to reject him, he is sure to break. Rejection by the girl is something the guys cannot bear. This brings out the next secret about guys that they do cry!
9. He that stammers in front of you is the one Cupid-struck:
Guys put up a lacklustre performance in the first few encounters with the girl-in-love. Phone talks do a lot of good to them than face-to-face encounters. They would rather mouth some boring world news than speak up what they intended to say, mainly to get over the stammer. So, go easy on them if they stammer and lose the way.
10. Guys in a serious relationship tend to become possessive:
So, no use accusing him if he tells flat to your face not to talk to your boyfriend. Guys in a serious relationship tend to become protective and jealous, and would do everything under their power to keep your other boyfriends off. The guy would also be watchful enough to keep you off potential problems. But know that such a guy is certainly dependable.
Yes, it is something else. In fact, the way the girl presents herself attracts the guy to enter into a serious relationship than her efforts at the beauty parlour. The girl's smile is the first missile that blows him off. And then it is about how she conducts herself in groups and in person. Generally, guys like to flirt but they don't like flirts.
